Long Distance Relationship is the keyword that I entered in
google when I received news of my husband get a scholarship. I will undergo LDR
for 365 days with a 7 hour time difference between Jakarta and the UK. Appeared
many articles that tend to tell the anxiety of the women . One day a co -worker
asked me what my LDR tips with husband .
to be frankly this is our first time LDR, during the 9 -year
courtship maybe once in the week we did not meet . To answer the last question
of my co-workers is a Mental Preparation , Stop Drama and hallucinating and
Believe
Preparation I
mean is that the mental preparation and must set your mind that this will
happen no matter you like or not . Prepare this period with the communications
do’s and don’ts what you and your partner agree on during the LDR . One of the
biggest why you and your partner can fit because your smell fit. The Smell is
not because fragrant. This is another key to preparation is keep 2-3 shirts are
worn and this is the most effective key to repel feeling nostalgic because her
scent still lingering on the shirt .
Stop Drama and stop
hallucinating . Why the article LDR talk on perspektif of women because Women
is a drama queen who likes to hurt her own hallucinations . Please don’t too
aggressive and suspect her/his of infidelity. So Ladies , just relax . It's not
the end of the world , stop doing drama and use your energy to an activity .
Activities such as Watching Movie , sports , plus the ability such a sewing , embroidery , english , gardening , cook
. Take the plus side you 've got “Me Time” a lot more now
Believe . Yup it
sounds cliche but maybe this is the last formula we face the LDR for mutual
trust then all will be well - fine. During the period there may be a future LDR
“Galau” a.k.a uneasy time and it's
only natural we enjoy it with a reasonable period of confusion without
melodramatic .
Hopefully this article can help all the ladies in their LDR
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